MGTOW and God’s sexual order

One of the reactions to feminism is the so-called “manosphere,” which includes the Men Going Their Own Way (MGTOW) movement. I am not going to mince words here: MGTOW is an abandonment of God’s natural sexual order. Most of the men in the MGTOW movement do not have the gift of celibacy, and the Apostle Paul has a warning in his first epistle to the church at Corinth:

I say therefore to the unmarried and widows, it is good for them if they abide even as I. But if they cannot contain, let them marry: for it is better to marry than to burn. — 1 Corinthians 7:8-9

Some translations have this as “burn with passion,” but it could very well mean a much worse kind of burning – meaning eternal Hell Fire. God created marriage as the only legitimate outlet for sex, which He created as a good thing for His creation. In fact, when God created mankind, He gave the commandment to “be fruitful and multiply,” which obviously requires sexual intercourse. The Apostle Paul quotes Genesis in his letter to the church at Ephesus:

For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. — Ephesians 5:31

Yes, marriage involves risk. Asking a woman out is carries the risk of rejection and embarrassment, and that risk is heightened when a man pursues marriage. Even once married, there is a risk the marriage could break apart due to sin by one or both partners. A man could lose not only his marriage, but his home and children even if he is the innocent party. Many men have correctly pointed out that child custody and divorce proceedings are often biased against men, so they want to avoid the risk entirely by “going their own way.”

Abandoning marriage because of the negative consequences of feminism is clearly not what God has intended for most men. Yes, I know that the gift of celibacy exists, but that is rare. So while there are certainly bad women who have been poisoned by feminism (especially “third wave” feminism), the answer to that problem is to seek a good woman, not avoid women and marriage entirely. All of life is risk, and God knows it. Avoiding marriage shows a lack of faith in God, that He will protect and reward your obedience to His will.

7 thoughts on “MGTOW and God’s sexual order

  1. Windy Wilson

    I have long thought the MGTOW was the 21st Century version of Lysistrata, the Ancient Greek Play where the women of Athens go on sexual strike because their men are acting stupidly about something very important (in their case, the Peloponnesian War, in the current case, acting very selfishly and getting the legal system to support and subsidize their wants.


  2. Every man who ever got married thought he’d chosen a good woman. Every man who ever got destroyed in divorce court didn’t think she would do that to him when he proposed. Every man who had his children stolen from him thought it would never happen as long as he was a good father and husband.

    There may be ‘good’ women out there but it’s impossible to identify them, and impossible to know for sure they will remain good women. And if you picked the wrong one your life could be destroyed. There are no protections for you other than her mercy. While the laws remain the way they are, MGTOW is the only rational path.

    And the laws aren’t going to change, because women are onboard with feminism and women are 51% of the voters. They may tone-police feminism, and mildly criticise the more militant voices of it, but they will do everything necessary to protect their existing advantages. In fact they will continue to make the laws worse, which they are doing.


  3. Jack G McGee III

    Found a pal who hung himself over a woman.
    Do NOT play the God card. She aborted the child he placed there. Yes, her body, her choice. It is just women no longer care about love, men, motherhood.
    MGTOW was the only sane choice after seeing that.


  4. The reason I’m playing the “God card” is because my post is a theological post, from an explicitly Christian perspective. I’ve seen dozens of good marriages, and godly wives – marriages that have lasted 20, 30 or 40 years and are still happy and committed. I’ve seen marriages fall apart because of the husband’s sin, or the wife’s sin, or both.

    Feminism – specifically from the 1990’s onward – has been destructive. Modern feminism is about hating men, not advancing women. But you paint with too broad of a brush in saying that all women “no longer care about love, men, motherhood.” The fact that they do care about that is why many women don’t call themselves feminists.


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